


Positive Relationships
Published on September 23, 2010
by Michelle Gielan
An important relationship in my life just ended… and I’ll admit it, I didn’t really see it coming. Â That event has sparked a lot of thinking about relationships in general, and why I value them as much as I do (I am happy I do!). Â Having healthy, productive relationships with my family and friends is the most important thing to me in life. What I have come to more fully understand recently are the reasons why positive connections with others matter so much to me.
Positive, productive relationships demand the best of us. For a friendship or marriage to allow both people to flourish, each person is an active participant in helping create the other one’s positive future. Whether we are a friend, lover, daughter, or grandparent, each relationship gives us a chance to invest our energy in making another person’s reality better. Each of us needs to fully show up, be present, listen, express ourselves, and care for the other, and that requires time and attention. Â When it all works out well, and we can see the happiness on the other’s face, that creates, at least for me, the best feeling of satisfaction in the world.
Relationships teach us about ourselves. Sometimes, for good or bad, the person standing in front of us can be a mirror showing us who we really are. If we don’t like something in them, there are chances we don’t like it in ourselves. Friendships also give us a chance to watch ourselves in action. We can, on a moment-to-moment basis, pay attention to what we are thinking, feeling, or doing in response to what is happening externally. We can plug into our life story anytime, and learn from it.
Read in Full:Â http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/lights-camera-happiness/201009/positive-relationships

Do Opposites Attract?
We all want to find love. But do we know a compatible mate when we see them or should we smell them? Do opposites really attract? Don’t we want someone with similar outlook on life and common interests?
In the past research has shown that as we fall in love, our brains experience a rise in dopamine and our sympathetic nervous system gets aroused as our blood pressure goes up. Simultaneously we begin to blush, feel butterflies in our bellies and become week in the knees. By discussing personal matter and maintaining eye contact we accelerate this feeling of arousal. A new dating site ScientificMatch.com is taking sexual chemistry to a new level by asserting that through DNA samples a better match can be made. Are they on to something? Recently a TV show called Dating in the Dark asked three women participants to smell the recently worn shirts of their three male counterparts and identify who they were drawn to. Does the nose know more than the eyes? A woman may be able to smell a man’s gene pool origins or major histocompatibility complex (MHC) genes. Researchers have found that most people tend to be attracted to individuals who possess body odors that are unlike their own natural smell. An exception to that is a woman who is on the pill, her sense of smell changes and can therefore manipulate what scents she finds appealing.
Read in Full:Â http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=39647&cn=289

When Your Husband Isn’t Like a Wall — He Is a Wall
“The Great Wall of China’s attractive, but he’s too thick – my husband is sexier.â€
– Eija-Riitta Eklöf-Berliner-Mauer, The woman who married the Berlin Wall
Do objects have souls?
A few weeks ago my laptop’s battery was in trouble and I had to bring it in for a checkup. While the computer was being fixed my Blackberry simply stopped operating. I was frantic.
I felt betrayed by the objects I rely on, ‘love’ and care for. “Why is this happening to me?†was my new mantra.
One of my friends suggested that Mercury was in retrograde; another asked if I had done something to offend my favorite objects. We laughed, recalling a Woody Allen routine where his appliances are on the fritz and he hits them, and when he goes into the elevator the elevator asks if he was the one who roughed up the toaster.
We all have a connection to objects. The more contact we have with them, the more intimate our relationship, the more we ascribe to them human feelings and gender attributes. “The car died – she won’t turn over†and “I love my new phone†are common examples.
But where does it end?
I can honestly say I love the earth and mean it. I want to nurture and protect it and save it, and I’m committed. As the saying goes, good planets are hard to find. But I don’t feel there is reciprocity. I don’t think Earth is in love with me. The relationship is one-way. If I thought the earth was being friendly toward me, I would be engaging in animism, the term used for giving human qualities to inanimate objects. Adding sexual arousal and gratification to the dynamic, we have fetishes or paraphilias.
So, I admit I love the earth. But can you love the Berlin Wall? Psychologists are pondering a new classification, called objectophilia or objectum-sexuals. Outside of a few news reports and a few experts weighing in, little has been written about it. I found no clinical studies. But there is an official website for persons with Objectum Sexuality.
Read in Full:Â http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/09/23/when-your-husband-isnt-like-a-wall-he-is-a-wall/

The Best Way to Meet Someone

It’s not a date, it’s an experiment in the lab of love
There’s a fantastic discussion on the science of dating over at Dr Petra that tackles how effective the techniques used by ‘scientific matching’ companies really are, and whether common dating advice is actually any good.
Petra recently ran a ‘Science of Pulling’ event at the British Science Festival (Americans: ‘pull’ is British slang meaning ‘to gently woo’) where she covered everything from how researchers actually go about studying couples to the myths of dating advice – in light of the extensive research on relationships.
Read in Full:Â http://mindhacks.com/2010/09/20/its-not-a-date-its-an-experiment-in-the-lab-of-love/

 
- By Cheryl Peebles
- Published in the Courier : 21.09.10
An autistic schoolboy who is in class for only an hour and a half each day is being discriminated against, according to his angry mother.
Brodi Nicol, a P6 pupil at Tayport Primary School, had his time in class slashed when he started becoming violent.
But a year on, his mum Charmain Miller is furious that his class time has yet to be built up as she says was agreed.
Charmain said Brodi, who was diagnosed with autism at around the same time as his school time was reduced, has stabilised since being prescribed medication.
She said, “Despite my best efforts his time has not been increased and he is falling behind his peers educationally and socially.
“I also recently found out from another parent that the rest of his class have been going on swimming lessons and school trips that Brodi has not been invited on.
“I believe he is being discriminated against because of his disability.”
Brodi’s autism means that he has trouble communicating and does not like change.
However, Charmain said he was quite intelligent and had an interest in history.
Read in Full:Â http://www.thecourier.co.uk/News/Fife/article/5333/autistic-boy-discriminated-against-by-school-says-mum.html
 
Incident at Petersburg school has autistic boy’s mother worried
September 23, 2010
Cumberland Times News
— My son is a special needs child at Petersburg Elementary School in Grant County, W.Va.
He is autistic, and has no fear of danger. He is supposed to have an aide at all times while at school. He has one on the bus, also. On Sept. 15 at 2:30 p.m., I recieved a call from the school subsitute principal. He told me nothing was wrong, so I was relieved, but then he said, they had a small problem with my child that day.
I thought it was just his small classroom problem he had the week prior to this day … no, he was out on the playground and he wandered off, not sure where his aide was, but there was another aide out there with another child, so my child got out of sight, down along the dike (river) he went and ended up being caught finally between the Pizza Hut and McDonald’s on U.S. Route 220, which is at least a half mile from the school.
Remember, I said my son has no fear of danger. Well, there was the river, the back roads he went by, and then the main highway he got too … something bad could have come out of this. Would any parent in their right mind worry or be scared to send their child to school again? Well, I am one of those parents … but the ones that deal with him at school think I am going too far.
Read in Full:Â http://times-news.com/opinion/x1327125303/Incident-at-Petersburg-school-has-autistic-boy-s-mother-worried
 
By JIM ABRAMS (AP) – Fri 24 September 2010
WASHINGTON — Disabilities advocates on Thursday applauded Congress for passing legislation that eliminates the term “mental retardation” from federal laws.
“Changing how we talk about people with disabilities is a critical step in promoting and protecting their basic civil and human rights,” said Peter Berns, CEO of The Arc, an organization promoting the human rights of people with intellectual and developmental disabilities.
The measure, passed by the House by voice vote Wednesday night, changes the phrase “mentally retarded” to “an individual with an intellectual disability” in existing health, education and labor law.
Sen. Barbara Mikulski, D-Md., sponsor of the bill with Sen Mike Enzi, R-Wyo., said it would make language in federal law consistent with that used by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, as well as the health arm of the United Nations and the White House.
“This law is about families fighting for the respect and dignity of their loved ones,” Mikulski said. “This change will have a positive effect on more than 6 million Americans.”
“Rosa’s Law,” named after a Maryland girl with Down Syndrome, passed the Senate last month and now goes to President Barack Obama for his signature.
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The bill is S. 2781
Online:
Congress: http://thomas.loc.gov
Source:Â http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gWB-C1pnWQStS-yNOFSxlE4DR29QD9IDQ5600
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HEADLINES
“Case against mother in son’s death to proceedâ€:
http://cbs4denver.com/news/Judge.rules.case.2.1903748.html
“State: No evidence Woods Services resident was abused … A state agency has found no evidence that staff at a Middletown center that provides services for severely disabled individuals abused a 19-year-old resident with mental disabilities who was hospitalized last month with facial cuts and bruises and a neck fracture. â€:
“Students face felony for bullying autistic boyâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/students_face_felony_for_bullying_autistic_boy.htm
“Cowardly thugs attack autistic teenâ€:
http://www.carlowpeople.ie/premium/news/cowardly-thugs-attack-autistic-teen-2345985.html
“Autism caregiver charged with child abuseâ€:
http://www.newsobserver.com/2010/09/21/694310/autism-caregiver-charged-with.html
“Louisville caregiver arrested, charged with abusing 13 year old autistic boyâ€:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39306056/ns/local_news-lexington_ky/
“Deputies find missing autistic girl near Scotts Valleyâ€:
http://www.contracostatimes.com/rss/ci_16136556?nclick_check=1
“Blind activist Chen Guangcheng freed in Chinaâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/blind_activist_chen_guangcheng_freed_in_china.htm
“Stevie Wonder urges U.N. bring light to the blindâ€: http://uk.news.yahoo.com/22/20100920/ten-uk-steviewonder-91c27f7.html
“Houston employment lawyer Charles H. Peckham files $50 million discrimination lawsuit against Montgomery County Juvenile Probation Department and Conroe ISDâ€:
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2010/09/prweb4539514.htm
“Autism services needed for N.B. Adultsâ€:
http://www.cbc.ca/canada/nbvotes2010/story/2010/09/13/nbvotes-autism-services-1039.html
“NHS failing autistic children: A National Autistic Society response to the Kennedy Review, UKâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/nhs_failing_autistic_children_a_national_autistic_society_r.htm
“NAS: Learning Disability Coalition launches “Protect the Frontline†Campaignâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/nas_learning_disability_coalition_launches_protect_the_fro.htm
“NAS Cymru launches public surveyâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/nas_cymru_launches_public_survey.htm
“A Message from Bill Shorten MP/Latest Election Newsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/a_message_from_bill_shorten_mplatest_election_news__austra.htm
Conference (Berkshire, UK) with Dean Beadle “Being Me: Views of Autism – BAS 2oth Anniversary Conference – October 8th 2010â€:
http://www.autismberkshire.org.uk/news/general/20th-anniversary-conference-24641.aspx
Gary McKinnon Updates “UK-US extradition treaty to be reviewedâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/gary_mckinnon_updates_ukus_extradition_treaty_to_be_review.htm
“Travelers with disabilities face obstacles at airportsâ€:
http://www.usatoday.com/travel/experts/baskas/2010-09-15-disabled-access-at-airports_N.htm
“Autism charity calls for NI audit/NAS – Carer’s Rightsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/autism_charity_calls_for_ni_carers_auditnas__carers_right.htm
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HEALTH & RESEARCH
“Autism in boys linked to missing gene on X-chromosomeâ€:
http://www.examiner.com/science-news-in-national/autism-boys-linked-to-missing-gene-on-x-chromosome
“Male autism linked to DNAâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/male_autism_linked_to_dna.htm
“Maths modelling unlocks developmental disorders, Australiaâ€:
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/201762.php
“Further Rigorous Research Required: Autism drug aims to balance brain signalsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/further_rigorous_research_required_autism_drug_aims_to_bala.htm
“Dangerous blood clot risk linked to newer antipsychoticsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/dangerous_blood_clot_risk_linked_to_newer_antipsychotics.htm
“Misfolded neural proteins linked to autism disordersâ€:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/09/100910142751.htm
Study No. 10 “Once more, no link found between vaccine preservative and autismâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/study_no_10_once_more_no_link_found_between_vaccine_prese.htm
“Cognitive skills in autistic children vary and improve, study findsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/cognitive_skills_in_autistic_children_vary_and_improve_stud.htm
“Children under four and autistic children don’t yawn contagiouslyâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/children_under_four_and_autistic_children_dont_yawn_contagi.htm
“Common antibiotic relieves anxiety and boosts attention in those with Fragile X Syndromeâ€:
“Abstract: Neurofeedback outcomes in clients with Aspergers Syndromeâ€:
http://www.citeulike.org/user/cholt629/article/6177832
“Oxytocin helps socially challengedâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/oxytocin_helps_socially_challenged.htm
“How mature is your child’s brain?â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/how_mature_is_your_childs_brain.htm
“5-minute scan reveals brain maturityâ€:
http://www.livescience.com/health/mri-brain-scan-predicts-brain-maturity-100909.html
“MIT researchers find that interneurones are not all created equallyâ€:
“New mental health information for people with learning disability and their carers, UKâ€:
“Can teacher’s mental health be improved?â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/can_teachers_mental_health_be_improved.htm
“CQC publishes the views of 17,000 people using Community Mental Health Services, UKâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/cqc_publishes_the_views_of_17000_people_using_community_men.htm
“Introducing Autism, Asperger’s and Beyondâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/introducing_autism_aspergers_and_beyond.htm
“Lower intelligence linked to inflammationâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/lower_intelligence_linked_to_inflamation.htm
“Eating disorder treatment: A family affairâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/eating_disorder_treatment_a_family_affair.htm
“Melatonin: Sweet dreams for autistic childrenâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/melatonin_sweet_dreams_for_autistic_children.htm
“How brain activity is linked to sleepâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/how_brain_activity_is_linked_to_sleep.htm
“14 Strategies for Sleeping Betterâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/14_strategies_for_sleeping_better.htm
“Medications for Insomnia and Anxiety could be dangerousâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/medications_for_insomnia_and_anxiety_could_be_dangerous.htm
“Underlying causes of Childhood Obsessive-Compulsive and Tourette’s Disorders targeted by new treatment optionsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/underlying_causes_of_childhood_obsessivecompulsive_and_tour.htm
“Hospital diaries protect from PTSDâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/hospital_diaries_protect_from_ptsd.htm
“UK Military turns to Public Care for Mental Healthâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/uk_military_turns_to_public_care_for_mental_health.htm
“Holocaust pain persistsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/holocaust_pain_persists.htm
“Zombies stalk the Earth!â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/zombies_stalk_the_earth.htm
“New program for teens, young adults experiencing 1st psychotic episodeâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/new_program_for_teens_young_adults_experiencing_1st_psychot.htm
“Study examines association between Urban Living and Psychotic Disordersâ€:
“Combining medication and psychosocial treatments may benefit patients with early-stage schizophreniaâ€:
“Mind Hacks: The Book of Reality Distortionsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/mind_hacks_the_book_of_reality_distortions.htm
“World Suicide Prevention Day: NAMI blog discusses Kurt Vonnegut, Despair and Saving Lives/Program to be tested in High Schoolsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/world_suicide_prevention_day_nami_blog_discusses_kurt_vonne.htm
“Researchers learn how Prozac worksâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/researchers_learn_how_prozac_works.htm
“Living a Positive Life with Bipolar (Manic) Depressionâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/living_a_positive_life_with_bipolar_manic_depression.htm
“Music prescription for depressionâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/music_prescription_for_depression.htm
“What is the relationship of depression and inability to express emotions in middle-aged men?â€:
“Chronic stress may cause long-lasting epigenetic changesâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/chronic_stress_may_cause_longlasting_epigenetic_changes.htm
“Better treatment of Anxiety Disorderâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/better_treatment_of_anxiety_disorder.htm
“5 ways to manage Fall anxietyâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/5_ways_to_manage_fall_anxiety.htm
“Some teens practice severe form of self-injuryâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/some_teens_practice_severe_form_of_selfinjury.htm
“New perspective improves self-controlâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/new_perspective_improves_selfcontrol.htm
“Discrimination lowers teens physical healthâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/discrimination_lowers_teens_physical_health.htm
“Migraine gives woman French accentâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/migraine_gives_woman_french_accent.htm
“Surfing lessons as therapy on the NHS(Includes Video 1:45)â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/surfing_lessons_as_therapy_on_the_nhs.htm
“San Francisco’s homeless mentally ill: Still neglectedâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/san_franciscos_homeless_mentally_ill_still_neglected.htm
“Why ‘Thank You’ is more than just good mannersâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/why_thank_you_is_more_than_just_good_manners.htm
“BPS Research Digest: The Special Issue Spotterâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/bps_research_digest_the_special_issue_spotter_18.htm
“Mind Hacks: Rare footage of physical treatments in psychiatry, 1957â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/mind_hacks_rare_footage_of_physical_treatments_in_psychiatr.htm
“Leaders have high emotional intelligenceâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/leaders_have_high_emotional_intelligence.htm
“BPS Research Digest: Why are women chosen to lead organisations in a crisis?â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/bps_research_digest_why_are_women_chosen_to_lead_organisati.htm
“What if Body Language doesn’t give you away?â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/what_if_body_language_doesnt_give_you_away.htm
“Getting drunk key to bonding for young peopleâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/getting_drunk_key_to_bonding_for_young_people.htm
“Brain region linked to introspective thoughtsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/brain_region_linked_to_introspective_thoughts.htm
“Hard-wired for chocolate and hybrid cars? How genetics affect consumer choiceâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/hardwired_for_chocolate_and_hybrid_cars_how_genetics_affec.htm
“Facebook: 7 Highly Effective Habitsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/facebook_7_highly_effective_habits.htm
“Proof Positive: NOT(Negative Oriented Therapy): The Cure for Happinessâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/proof_positive_notnegatively_oriented_therapy_the_cure_f.htm
“Relationships: Social Connections, Sons Reduce Likelihood of Divorce, Coping with Divorce, The Bipolar Relationship, How to Improve Your Mood and Reduce Tension, How To Be Happy, Confucian Styleâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/relationships_social_connections_sons_reduce_likelihood_of.htm
“Relationships: Online Dating Insights, Can Other People Make Us Happy?, Freedom to Love & More …â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/relationships_online_dating_insights_can_other_people_make.htm
“Virtual Hospitalâ€:
http://www.uihealthcare.com/vh/
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EDUCATION
NAS “Government asks for views on education for children with special educational needsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/nas_government_asks_for_views_on_education_for_children_wit.htm
“NAS Media Response: Ofsted’s review of SEN and Disabilityâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/nas_media_response_ofsteds_review_of_sen_and_disability.htm
“Half of special needs children misdiagnosed/Ofsted Report on Special Needs comes under fireâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/half_of_special_needs_children_misdiagnosed.htm
“Eden School: New autism school opens in Fort Myersâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/eden_school_new_autism_school_opens_in_fort_myers.htm
“NY Gifted Education: First 2e school opened its doors in NYC this past Mondayâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/ny_gifted_education_first_2e_school_opened_its_doors_in_nyc.htm
Autism Oasis “School uses unique methods to teach autistic childrenâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/autism_oasis_school_uses_unique_methods_to_teach_autistic_c.htm
“Autistic Society school in Devon may lose 30 staffâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/autistic_society_school_in_devon_may_lose_30_staff.htm
“Countess of Wessex opens new £3m extension to autism schoolâ€:
“Royal visit for new schoolâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/royal_visit_for_new_school.htm
Teacher and Author of Award Winning Book on Autism “Raleigh Co. educator named W.Va. Teacher of Yearâ€:
http://www.dailymail.com/ap/ApTopStories/201009090222
“Model preschool program emphasizes inclusion for children with disabilitiesâ€:
“Program launched for deaf, autistic studentsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/program_launched_for_deaf_autistic_students.htm
An Autistic Boy and his Dog “Milo and Chad”:
http://www.cbsnews.com/2300-204_162-10004845.html#ixzz0znsJ20YV
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EMPLOYMENT
“Creative Support Ltdâ€:
http://www.creativesupport.co.uk/Â
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“Autelligent Laboratories
We believe all people have a contribution to make and deserve an opportunity to be productive.
With your caring and excellent help, we are creating jobs for the 40 million people worldwide who are diagnosed with Autism and Asperger Syndrome. Today less than one in five of us are currently employed. We are motivated and competent and we deserve equal employment. Help make this a reality.
Autelligent Laboratories is dedicated to creating a space where autistic software engineers can more than contribute, we can excel.â€:
Luxury Quality Scented Candles “Humbolt Candles – Autism & Disability Employment Companyâ€:
http://www.humboldtcandles.com/index.html
“Auties.orgâ€:
Individuality, Diversity, Equality, Achievement
Auties..org is an Aspie & Autie friendly site for all people on the Autistic Spectrum who are ready to dare reach out to occupation and employment, open the doors to the community and market their abilities directly to the public and for those interested in supporting these pioneers.
“Prospectsâ€:
http://www.autism.org.uk/our-services/employment-support/prospects-for-job-seekers.aspx
“AutismJobsâ€:
Linking job seekers with vacancies in work related to autism, Aspergers and ASDs
http://www.autismjobs.org/?section=00010009
“Employment within the NASâ€:
For further employment information, please viewâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/employment_on_the_autism_spectrum.htm
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GENERAL/HUMAN INTEREST
“Autism’s first child … Meet Donald Gray Triplett, 77, the First Person Ever Diagnosed With Autismâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/autisms_first_child_donald_gray_triplett_is_first_person_e.htm
“My child is not a monster. He is autisticâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/mail_online_my_child_is_not_a_monster_he_is_autistic.htm
“Making the world work for autistic adultsâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/making_the_world_work_for_autistic_adults.htm
“Vive le Difference!: Stereotyping Autistic Peopleâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/vive_le_difference_stereotyping_autistic_people.htm
Temple Grandin “Alternative Thinking: Animal behaviorist and autism activist talks the advantages of thinking differentlyâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/alternative_thinking_animal_behaviorist_and_autism_activist.htm
“Bob Denver leaves lasting legacy in West Virginiaâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/bob_denver_leaves_lasting_legacy_in_west_virginia.htm
“Babies on antipsychotics?!â€:
http://www.momlogic.com/2010/09/babies_on_antipsychotics.php
Australia “Interventions in a baffling world: autism spectrum disordersâ€:
“Thomas & Friends unite with Autism NZâ€:
http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/AK1009/S00473/thomas-friends-unites-with-autism-nz.htm
“Leeds Pumpkin Farm Autism Harvest Festivalâ€:
http://www.examiner.com/autism-parenting-in-columbus/leeds-pumpkin-farm-autism-harvest-festival
“Coco Key Resort Mt Laurel NJ for autistic kids with sensory needsâ€:
“A dog for Vincentâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/a_dog_for_vincent.htm
“Campers take the path less traveledâ€:
http://www.chillicothegazette.com/article/20100909/NEWS01/9090320
“Labelling children with special needsâ€:
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art8691.asp
“The social signs of autism vary between each person but many share commonalities in social behaviorâ€:
“Autism may present at different ages. Know the signs and symptoms of autism for a 1 year oldâ€:
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UTAH

“Autism Society Utah Chapterâ€:
1733 West 12600 South #106
Riverton UT 84065
(Salt Lake County)
(801) 708-4404 (Main Phone)
Fax: (801) 302-8282
E-Mail address: lora.sorensen10@gmail.com
Website: http://www.utahautismasa.org
 
Utah Capitol
“Utah State Resourcesâ€:
http://www.autism-society.org/site/PageServer?pagename=utah

Canyonland National Park
“Autism Schools in Colorado and Utah: The Joshua School, Carmen B. Pingree, and Spectrum Academyâ€:
http://www.suite101.com/content/autism-schools-in-colorado-and-utah-a136237

Coyote Buttes
“Salt Lake City schools for kids with Asperger’s Syndromeâ€:

Delicate Arch
“Layton UT Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrician Doctorsâ€:
http://www.medicinenet.com/asperger_syndrome/layton-ut_city.htm

Lenticular Clouds, Mount Timpanogos

A Midsummer Night’s Lightning Storm(Utah’s Great Salt Lake, Garfield Junction)
“Provo UT Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrician Doctorsâ€:
http://www.medicinenet.com/asperger_syndrome/provo-ut_city.htm

“JUPITER”, a wood-burning locomotive, is a replica of the original which was present when the golden spike was driven, completing the first transcontinental railroad. It’s on display at The Golden Spike Historic Site near Ogden, Utah.
http://www.utah.com/nationalsites/golden_spike.htm
“Work Ability Utah – Opening Doors for Workâ€:
http://www.workabilityutah.org/youth/toolkit/disabilitieswebresources.php

Monument Valley
“Spectrum Academy, Utahâ€:
http://www.utah.gov/transparency/entity_profile.html?id=253

Monument Valley, Navajo Tribal Park(on the Utah/Arizona border)
“Utah family: 6 on the spectrumâ€:
http://www.ksl.com/?nid=148&sid=2989298

Jeep Liberty prototype in Moab
“Utah Guideâ€:
http://travel.nationalgeographic.com/travel/united-states/utah-guide/

Arches, Peek-A-Boo Gulch
“Utah Factsâ€:
http://travel.nationalgeographic.com/travel/united-states/utah-facts/

A mojave desert sunset, back-lighting a cactus with some Joshua trees in the background.
“Utah Mapâ€:
http://travel.nationalgeographic.com/travel/united-states/utah-map/

Desert Horned Lizard

Black Tailed Jack Rabbit

 Wild Mountain Lion
“Cruise Yampa White Water in Vernal, Utahâ€:
http://adventure.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/trips/family-trips/yampa-utah/

Bingham/Kennecott Mine: The Bingham Canyon Mine, also known as the Kennecott Copper Mine, is an open-pit mining operation extracting a large porphyry copper deposit southwest of Salt Lake City, Utah, USA, in the Oquirrh Mountains. It is owned by Rio Tinto Group, an international mining and exploration company headquartered in the United Kingdom. The copper operations at Bingham Canyon Mine are managed through Kennecott Utah Copper Corporation which operates the mine, a concentrator plant, a smelter, and a refinery. The mine has been in production since 1906, and has resulted in the creation of a pit over 0.75 miles (1.2 km) deep, 2.5 miles (4 km) wide, and covering 1,900 acres (7.7 km²). According to Kennecott, it is the world’s largest man-made excavation. It was designated a National Historic Landmark in 1966 under the name Bingham Canyon Open Pit Copper Mine.
“Southwest Guide: Utahâ€:
http://adventure.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/trips/southwest-united-states/utah/

Bryce Canyon National Park
“Video: Utah National Parks 2:34â€:

 Water Cuts Rock: A translucent and symmetrical 12′ (4 meter) waterfall in Zion National Park

 The Subway, Zion National Park

The Cedar Waxwings are migratory and are found in northern Utah for only a few days in the fall and spring. There were about 500 birds in the flock that were eating these berries.

 Utah Garden Cottage: Roses cover the cottage in June at The Garden Cottage Bed and Breakfast in historic downtown Cedar City, Utah. Just across from the site of the Utah Shakespearean Festival. Midway between Zion and Bryce National Parks. http://www.thegardencottagebnb.com/

Wildwood, Utah Valley: A beautiful day otherwise, the 10,000 foot Rockies block airflow, allowing a thick inversion layer to form over the Utah Valley. Because of this sea-like inversion layer, this location was ranked on one particular day last week as having the worst air quality in the nation. Despite this inversion, far away in the valley, the skiing at Sundance is absolutely amazing (where there’s nothing but great ski runs and blue skies).

Mountain trail in Provo Canyon

Utah Lake near Provo

 Fox Family, Milford

Springtime in Milford

 Springville Museum of Art: This quilt won best of show. Wonderfully detailed.
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ADD/ADHD
“NAMI launches online ADHD Resource Center to support children and adultsâ€:
“One in five hyperactive kids possibly misdiagnosedâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/one_in_five_hyperactive_kids_possibly_misdiagnosed_study.htm
“9.2% of Michigan children diagnosed with ADHDâ€:
“Does your inattentive child have ADD/ADHD or a vision problem?â€:
“Important step forward in research on ADHD and substance abuseâ€:
http://www.medilexicon.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=200840
“Researchers identify ways to improve treatment of aggression in ADHDâ€:
“ADHD and Conduct Disorder: Delinquency in teens with ADHDâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/adhd_and_conduct_disorder_delinquency_in_teens_with_adhd.htm
“Coping with ADHD at homeâ€:
http://www.examiner.com/motherhood-in-mesa/coping-with-adhd-at-home
“Tips for parenting ADHD kids: Free seminar to educate and support parents of children with ADHDâ€:
“Information for students with ADHDâ€:
http://www.independent.ie/health/information-for-students-with-adhd-2335190.html
“Free Natural Health Ebook: Managing the Summertime Ups and Downs of ADD/ADHDâ€:
ADRES “Adverse Drug Reaction Electronic System(Adverse Drug Reactions Website)â€- This website provides patients, doctors, and other medical professionals with a comprehensive examination of adverse drug reactions (ADRs), side effects, and other safety information for both prescription and over-the-counter medications.. Our goal is to allow users of our website make informed decisions when taking (patients) or prescribing (doctors) drugs. We are providing unmatched information and analysis tools.
http://www.adverse-drug-reaction.net/
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“adders.orgâ€:
Our objective is to promote awareness to AD/HD (Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) and to provide information and as much free practical help as we can to those affected by the condition, both adults and children, their families in the UK and around the World via this website.
Â
“ADDISS†The National Attention Deficit Disorder Information and Support Service…
http://www.addiss.co.uk/index.html
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“ADDAâ€:
Â
“hi2u ADHD Pagesâ€:
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“CHADDâ€:
http://www.chadd.org/am/CustomPages/home/CHADD_Home.htm?CFID=2282059&CFTOKEN=38105335&jsessionid=f2303343221169802693562
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SPORT
“10-kilometre runsâ€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=1816
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“Trek the Sahara – 5-25 March 2010 or 29 Oct-8 Nov 2010â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2542
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“Big Fun Run (See Link For UK Location Dates):
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2169
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“Victory for Autism Bike Ride – 11 September 2010â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2409
Â
“Land’s End to John O’Groat’s Bike Ride – 28 Sept-10 Oct 2010/3-15 May 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2605
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“Royal Parks Half Marathon – 10 October 2010â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2208&a=19143
Â
“Trek Mount Kilimanjaro – 8-19 Oct 2010/2-13 Feb 2011/13-24 July 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2200
Â
“Trek the Great Wall of China – 9-18 Oct 2010/8-16 October 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2356
Â
“Trek to Everest Base Camp – 5-21 November 2010/25 March – 10 April 2011/4-20 Nov 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2354
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“Trek to the Home of the Dalai Lama – 17-28 March 2011 and 15-26 Sept 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2602
Â
“Trek the Inca Trail – 14-23 May 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=1863
Â
“Icelandic Lava Trek – 20-24 July 2011â€:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=2611
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“Sky Diving – All Year Round”:
http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=1726
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MUSIC
“Colin Brennan: 8 year old singing sensation needs North Oakville’s help to win contestâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/colin_brennan_8_year_old_singing_sensation.htm
“The AutisMusic Projectâ€:
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ART
“The paintings of Jessica Parkâ€:
GLIMPSE – the talents of the autism community
They are painters, sculptors and photographers; poets and storytellers; musicians and creators of amazing video games. They are kids, teens and adults. Last year, a new online publication arose to celebrate the talents of autistic individuals and other developmental disabilities: GLIMPSE, offered by ICDL (The Interdisciplinary Council of Developmental and Learning Disorders). In late 2008, Volume 2 of GLIMPSE was released, and was expanded into a print book and notecards. The works are serious, humourous, deeply personal and illuminating. See it for yourself, share it with others, submit your own/your child’s work for inclusion in Volume 3, to release later this year. Find information and ordering details at www.icdl.com
“ARTROOM ………where under 17s can make and display art onlineâ€:
http://www.saatchi-gallery.co.uk/artroom/index.php
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MOVIES/ENTERTAINMENT
“Austin celebrates Emmy Awards for Temple Grandinâ€:
http://www.examiner.com/movie-in-austin/austin-celebrates-emmy-awards-for-temple-grandin
“Comedy Central’s star-studded benefit for autism education, airing Oct. 21â€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/comedy_centrals_starstudded_benefit_for_autism_education_a.htm
“Actors for Autismâ€:
http://www.actorsforautism.com/
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BOOKS
(Video 6:37)“Anne Droyd & Century Lodge by Will Hadcroftâ€:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEmabIVt2P8
“Setting Up Classroom Spaces That Support Students With Autism Spectrum Disordersâ€
by Susan Kabot, Ed.D., CCC-SLP and Christine Reeve, Ph.D., BCBA-D
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9046.htm
“Improving Speech and Eating Skills in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders – An Oral Motor Program for Home and Schoolâ€
by Maureen A. Flanagan
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9005.htm
“Activity Schedules for Children with Autism: Teaching Independent Behaviorâ€
by Lynn E. McClannahan and Patricia J. Krantz
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_A103.htm
“You’re Going to Love This Kid!†Teaching Students with Autism in the Classroom
by Paula Kluth; foreword by Eugene Marcus
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_Y104.htm
“Arnie and His School Tools: Simple Sensory Solutions That Build Successâ€
by Jennifer Veenendall
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9002.htm
“Guns A’Blazing: How Parents of Children on the Autism Spectrum and Schools Can Work Together – Without a Shot Being Firedâ€
by Jeff Cohen
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9955.htm
“Indigo Ocean Dreams: 4 Children’s Stories Designed to Decrease Stress, Anger and Anxiety while Increasing Self-Esteem and Self-Awareness†(Audio CD)
by Lori Lite
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_I402A.htm
“Power Cards: Using Special Interests to Motivate Children and Youth With Asperger Syndrome and Autismâ€
by Elisa Gagnon
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9910.htm
“Sleep Better!: A Guide to Improving Sleep for Children With Special Needsâ€
by Mark Durand
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_S105.htm
“Teaching By Design: Using Your Computer to Create Materials for Students with Learning Differencesâ€
by Kimberly S. Voss
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_T137.htm
“Unfolding the Tent: Advocating for Your One-Of-A-Kind-Childâ€
by Anne Addison
http://www.asperger.net/bookstore_9951.htm
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CINEMA

“Brendan and the Secret of Kellsâ€
Release Date: October 1, 2010 W’Wide
Official Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MTPAvY4y0pY
Synopsis: The animated story of the boy behind the famed Book of Kells.Â
… Beautifully drawn and refreshingly calm, The Secret of Kells hearkens back to animation’s golden age with an enchanting tale inspired by Irish mythology.
http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/secret_of_kells/

“World’s Greatest Dadâ€
Release Date: September 24, 2010 W’Wide
Official Trailer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PkGTjZccNE
Synopsis: A thoughtful but outrageous comedy from Bobcat Goldthwait, WORLD’S GREATEST DAD is a story about a man that learns the things you want most may not be the things that make you happy, and that being lonely is not necessarily the same as being alone.
Robin Williams stars as Lance Clayton, a man who has learned to settle. He dreamed of being a rich and famous writer, but has only managed to make it as a high school poetry teacher. His only son Kyle (Daryl Sabara) is an insufferable jackass who won’t give his father the time of day. He is dating Claire (Alexie Gilmore), the school’s adorable art teacher, but she doesn’t want to get serious — or even acknowledge publicly that they are dating.

Written and directed by Bobcat Goldthwait, WORLD’S GREATEST DAD stars Robin Williams, Alexie Gilmore, Daryl Sabara, Geoff Pierson, Henry Simmons and Mitzi McCall. The film was produced by Tim Perrell, Howard Gertler, Sean McKittrick and Richard Kelly and co-produced by Sarah de Sa Rego.
http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1213731-worlds_greatest_dad/
“Crowe to star in Kung Fu movieâ€:
http://uk.movies.yahoo.com/blog/article/34621/crowe-to-star-in-kung-fu-movie.html
“Alien prequelâ€:
http://uk.movies.yahoo.com/13092010/5/arterton-talks-alien-prequel-0.html
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VIDEO GAMES

“Just Cause 2†(PS3, Xbox 360, PC DVD) 15+
Now Available

“Escape the Museum†(Nintendo DS, Wii, PC CD, PC/Mac, DS/Lite) 3+
Release Date: October 29, 2010
“Video games help improve decision makingâ€:
http://aspie-editorial.blog-city.com/video_games_help_improve_decision_making.htm
“Today Playstation Move, tomorrow Playstation Mind?â€:
http://www.newscientist.com/blogs/shortsharpscience/2010/09/today-playstation-move-next-pl.html

Video 3:04 “Video Game First: Legend of the Guardians becomes first major feature film and video game both produced in Australiaâ€:
http://player.video.news.com.au/theaustralian/#1596154277
“Man flies through London with rocket on his backâ€:
The stunt, organised by XBOX 360 to promote their Halo Reach game, lasted less than a minute.
http://uk.news.yahoo.com/4/20100913/tuk-man-flies-through-london-with-rocket-dba1618.html

“Planet Michael Jackson to launchâ€:
http://uk.news.yahoo.com/21/20100921/ten-planet-michael-jackson-to-launch-5f8abb3.html
“Games that make you go Grrrrrr!â€:
http://uk.videogames.games.yahoo.com/blog/article/15670/
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TECH
 
“Deceptive Robots Hint At Machine Self-Awarenessâ€
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SPACE

“Gallery: The Star Photographers Who Captured The Night Skyâ€
http://www.newscientist.com/gallery/apoty2010
“Aborigines World’s First Astronomers: Studyâ€
Take Care,
Julie

Monument Valley Sunset
 
Article Date: 22 Sep 2010 – 0:00 PDT
Clues to consumer behavior may be lurking our genes, according to a new study in the Journal of Consumer Research.
“We examine a wide range of consumer judgment and decision-making phenomenon and discover that many – though not all of them – are in fact heritable or influenced by genetic factors,” write authors Itamar Simonson (Stanford University) and Aner Sela (University of Florida, Gainesville).
The authors studied twins’ consumer preferences to determine whether or not certain behaviors or traits have a genetic basis. “A greater similarity in behavior or trait between identical than between fraternal twins indicates that the behavior or trait is likely to be heritable,” the authors explain.
Read in Full:Â http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/201904.php
 
September 22, 2010
Quick 7-point primer on the psychology of Facebook.
Love it or loathe it, Facebook is everywhere, and will continue to be everywhere as the film describing its genesis—The Social Network—is released worldwide over coming months.
To help you cope, here are 7 research-based tips for total Facebook domination. If you don’t use it, these should at least help you pepper Facebook-related conversations with compelling observations from the psychological research.
1. Get between 100 and 300 friends
It doesn’t look good to have too many Facebook friends, or too few.
It has been suggested that humans can maintain relationships with 150 people and Tong et al. (2008) found Facebooker’s social attractiveness peaked at around this number. Go much above 300 or below 100 and social attractiveness starts to drop.
2. Court attractive friends
Make sure your friends, or the people who post on your ‘wall’, are good-looking. Walther et al. (2008) found that attractive friends boosted the perceived attractiveness of participant’s profiles.
Keep the uggos away, unlike the offline world, it won’t make you look better in comparison.
3. Understand the 7 motivations
If you need to lure more people in as Facebook friends, it’s handy to understand its attraction.
Joinson (2008) found 7 basic motivations for using Facebook: connecting with old or distant friends, social surveillance (see what old friends are up to, but without talking to them), looking up people met offline, virtual people watching, status updating and content.
Read in Full:Â http://www.spring.org.uk/2010/09/facebook-7-highly-effective-habits.php
Jan
22
 
Article Date: 21 Sep 2010 – 20:00 PDT
Patients who take newer kinds of antipsychotic medications may have a higher risk of developing serious blood clots, say researchers from Nottingham, England in an article published in the BMJ (British Medical Journal). Specifically, the risk is of venous thromoembolism – a collective term for DVT (deep vein thrombosis) and pulmonary embolism. Antipsychotic drugs are not only prescribed for patients with psychosis, but occasionally for such conditions as vertigo, vomiting or nausea.
Venous thromboembolism is a major cause of illness and death, it is also preventable, the authors write. A third of survivors go on to suffer long-term effects; up to a quarter die within a week of developing the clot.
Read in Full:Â http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/202011.php

I’ve just found a remarkable documentary on YouTube from a 1957 BBC series called ‘The Hurt Mind’. The programme attempts to de-stigmatise mental health for the public but also documents some of the most controversial treatments in the history of psychiatry.
The programme was an edition of a then pioneering five-part BBC series on mental health and this was one that specifically dealt with ‘physical treatments’ – that is, treatments which directly affect the brain, such as ECT, leucotomy, insulin coma therapy and abreaction.
This was before the days when pills were widely used in psychiatry – there were no antidepressants, antipsychotics or mood stabilisers and the only tranquilisers were heavyweight barbiturates, as benzodiazapines had yet to become available.
The psychiatrists on the programme are not named, but if I’m not mistaken, the main interviewee is William Sargant, who has a bit of sinister reputation for his enthusiasm for brain altering treatments, his interest in ‘brain washing’, and rumours he was funded by the CIA – as we’ve discussed previously.
Sargant literally wrote the book on physical treatments (titled An Introduction to Physical Methods of Treatment in Psychiatry) and the programme presents them in the most biased possible light, in line with Sargant’s enthusiasms, by dismissing side-effects and presenting single case of recovered happy patients.
For those more familiar with the frontal lobotomy – popularised by American surgeon Walter Freeman, which involved hammering an ice pick under the orbits of the eyes – you’ll notice that the British version of the operation, the leucotomy, was substantially different in its approach and involved drilling small holes in the skull.
The programme also depicts abreaction, where a patient with a post-traumatic condition is given a drug – often barbiturate, or, in this case, ether – and encouraged to talk about the difficult event.
The procedure was based on the Freudian notion that emotional pain can be repressed and can ‘build up’ and cause difficulties in other areas – although a drug can be used to help break down the defences and releases the emotion in a healthy catharsis.
Read in Full:Â http://mindhacks.com/2010/09/22/rare-footage-of-physical-treatments-in-psychiatry-1957/
 
Coco Key Resort in Mount Laurel NJ is an indoor water-park that is always 84 degrees. They offer a variety of water park activities.There is also a small counter service eatery. The nicest part for parents is a lounge area and indoor-outdoor hot tub just for parents or people over the age of 21.
What is at Coco Key Resort
- a large water-playground with three body slides
- lily pad pool
- toddler water play area with large movie screen that plays movies
- 3 foot deep activity pool
- 3 tube and body thrill slides.

We visited Coco Key on a Wednesday after Labor Day, which is their least expensive day of the week with admission being 5.00 off and comes to 17.00 a person. It was not crowded at all, and the first half-hour we were there we were the only people in the water-park. From 5pm on the activity picked up but it was never overly crowded or loud.
Read in Full: http://www.examiner.com/autism-parenting-in-newark/coco-key-resort-mt-laurel-nj-for-kids-with-autism-and-sensory-needs-review


